So I Have Jokes…

So I Have Jokes…

Over the summer, I had the pleasure of working with a leader of a department of 40 employees. I sat in on a few meetings and noticed that he used comedy in lieu of small talk to break the ice and deal with awkward situations. While levity at work isn’t a bad...
New Beginnings

New Beginnings

As I write this, the new owners of our house, whom I just met today, are doing a final walkthrough. The closing is today, in about 30 minutes. All the i’s are dotted, t’s crossed, it is a matter of filing now. The buyers are looking at their future, while I look at a...

Is anyone listening?

During this past Tuesday’s Being a Leader reading with two of my colleagues, we read slides related to authentic listening. This sentence showed me the depths to which I am not listening: This kind of listening requires you to be authentically committed to recreating...
The Discipline of Reflection

The Discipline of Reflection

Creating practices has been an integral part of my Dorrier Underwood training and I include them in my coaching with clients. What I’ve gotten clearer about over the last year is how a practice can interrupt “my drift”, that which reliably keeps me small, and has the...