When Strengths Become Limits

When Strengths Become Limits

I have been thinking about..and I invite you to think with me…the distinction Success Strategy/Winning Formula and styles of leadership/being in the world. Are they distinct, if so in what ways? What can we impact and what do we simply want to own and enhance?  A...
Noticing Where You Get Stopped

Noticing Where You Get Stopped

Have you ever been in a conversation with a person who works for you or with a peer when something they say, or even some random facial expression hits you wrong? Maybe you have a history with the person that the moment evokes, or maybe the situation reminds you of...

The Wedding

  The big event, the biggest one since Phil’s stroke happened – Phil’s granddaughter, his first blood granddaughter, got married on Saturday at Carolina Grove, between Durham and Hillsborough. Really between, like woods and farms between, a rural setting.  ...
We Always Have a Choice

We Always Have a Choice

The hockey world has been shaken by a scandal that dates back to 2010. A young Canadian, drafted at age 16 by the Chicago Blackhawks hockey club, sued this past May as John Doe for a prolonged sexual assault by the Hawks’ video coach. He recently went public, after...

Speaking to the Listening

I am in the research and gathering information process for several home projects. There are some things I wish I could do – take up the carpet in the living room and bedroom and replace it with hardwoods that would match the wood that is already in parts of the...